Who controls your mood? It’s you or someone else.

Let’s consider two examples: — One fine morning you get up and get a call form someone. He talks all good about you and You feel very good.

Now, another day you get up and again you get a call from someone who talks all bad about you and you are upset.

Now, think who is controlling your mood. It’s you or someone else. So don’t let others control your mood. It’s your mood and you control it.

People will talk lot about you but you just listen to them calmly

My purpose of writting above lines is that everyone in his life gets criticism. But here we need to understand that it is positive criticism or negative criticism. Positive criticism is always good for you. It gives you chance to introspect and improve those things which are not good for you where as negative criticism is done to pull you down.

Let me brief you on it.

In your life you get two kinds of criticism one is positive and another is negative. A positive criticism is always done by your well wishers. No one is perfect in this world. Everyone has some demerits in him. And we also have demerits in us, some of our demerits we can not judge on our own. These demerits are highlighted by our well wishers. They really want us to improve upon. So they criticize us, but they criticize in a very polite and systematic way.

On the other hand you will find some people criticize you to pull you down. They criticize in a very sarcastic way. Their’s aim is not to make you a better person rather they want to disturb you. They may be your peers or even your close one. We need to recognise such persons and avoid them as far as possible. Never take their words by ❤️. They spoil your mood and time.

NO ONE CAN MAKE YOU FEEL INFERIOR WITHOUT YOUR PERMISSION

ELEANOR ROOSEVELT

Author is a teacher in New Delhi, India